T he union, the bond

When i listen to lots of the couples seminar, they tend to address a lot of issues, but there is one issue they fail to address, this is the issue of sex, study and research has proven that the problems suffered by most marriages boils down to a lack of proper awareness in this area. When we shy away from the truth that affects us directly and the home, there is bound to be dissatisfaction, i pray i don't handle a seminar like this, because people that knows me physically, knows am a raw and vocal preacher, when we try to over spiritualize everything by shying away from the basic truth, that’s where religion and pretense begins. Man is a spiritual and emotional being, to have a successful marriage; there is the need for balance in these two areas.

 

 The woman is made an emotional being, God made it so, if you study carefully the scripture, what they devil worked on was eve's emotions, and the devil still does this today with ignorant women, you don't get over spiritual to neglect the emotional needs of your spouse, even the bible stands against it, by so doing many have given the devil access into their home through the back door, if you can't freely discuss sex with your spouse, then he or she is not your true friend, showing a lack of trust, for there is no shame, or fear in love, the bible tells us that they were both naked and were not ashamed. We are responsible for building a stronger intimacy with our spouse.To avoid being mechanical in marriage, take the step to be enlightened.

 

 

When last did you take your wife out on a romantic date? When last did you tell her that she is the most beautiful masterpiece, which n life gave you the rare privilege to meet? How much have you done to show how much you care, cherish, love and appreciate her? When last did you surprise her to make understand you were thinking of her, where your money, time and attention is, shows where your heart truly is. Many today get to busy for their spouse and expose their spouse to all forms of temptations. 

Part of the maturity men need to possess, learn and understand before marriage is the language of a woman, for a happy woman makes a happy, successful, great and prosperous home, part of the maturity women needs to learn and understand is the language of a man, for a well pleased man is nectar to the soul of the wife.